Frequently Asked Questions

Answers to family and business law questions depend on your own precise set of factors, so the information you read here does not constitute legal advice. That said, we have provided an FAQ to help you gain knowledge on issues of concern for you and your family.

Family Law FAQ

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Divorce

Are There Special Requirements To Get A Divorce In Utah?

If there are unsettled or contested issues in the divorce or if the couple has minor children, then yes, special requirements do apply to Utah divorces. Contested issues require that the couple go through the mediation process to try and work out as many of their issues as possible before asking a judge to intervene. When a couple has minor children, they are required to take divorce education classes before a divorce can be issued.

How Long Will My Divorce Take?

The length of the divorce process can vary depending on the individual issues of the divorce. In most cases, it will take a minimum of three months from the time the petitioner files for divorce before a judge signs the divorce decree, making it final – due to Utah’s 90-day waiting period. Divorces that are contested, or that have several complex issues to be resolved, will often take longer.
Divorces in Utah can be no-fault divorces or fault divorces. The grounds for divorce determine which type it will be. In most cases, couples seek a no-fault divorce because the process is simpler, faster, and less expensive.
Two of the grounds that may be listed on the petition are no-fault grounds, which include irreconcilable differences, and living apart for three consecutive years without cohabitation under a decree of separate maintenance by any state.
For a fault divorce, certain grounds must be proven to file a fault divorce. The grounds can include:

  • Impotency at the time of marriage
  • Committing adultery
  • Willful desertion by the respondent for at least a year
  • Willful neglect by the respondent to provide petitioner common necessaries of life
  • Habitual drunkenness of respondent
  • Incurable insanity
  • A felony conviction
  • Cruel treatment resulting in bodily injury or mental distress
Who Can Get Divorced In Utah?

Utah law states that at least one of the people getting the divorce needs to have lived in a single county within the state for three consecutive months before filing a divorce petition. If there is a custody issue with minor children, in most cases the children need to have resided with at least one of the parents for six months before the divorce petition is filed.

What are the steps for getting a divorce in Utah?

The divorce process in Utah starts with a Complaint for Divorce, filed with the District Court in the Utah county where you have lived for at least three months. The court will set a hearing date for your case.
You need not prove anything to get divorced. The Complaint for Divorce in a no-fault filing declares “irreconcilable differences” between the two parties. Most couples file for a no-fault divorce as it is simpler, more efficient, and less intrusive than a court case attempting to prove fault.

What if we disagree on the terms of the divorce?

Coming to an agreement is not always easy and straightforward. It’s common to rely on a judge to resolve various disputes. In that case, attorneys for both parties will present their cases to the judge in an effort to receive what their clients want. Difficult cases in which the parties wrangle over child custody and property division can take as long as two years, although Utah lawmakers implemented provisions in 2018 to speed up the average time.

Are there any alternatives that enable the divorcing parties to hash out these disputes ourselves?

Yes. Utah has designed a collaborative divorce provision in which lawyers for both sides work to achieve an agreement through mediation, and your attorney will be able to explore that possibility with you if you request it.

What if my spouse asks me to leave?

Generally, if there is no temporary restraining order, you do not need to leave your home. Your grounds to stay are especially firm if you’re not the one filing for divorce but instead are suddenly presented by a demand to move out.

Hire a divorce attorney. If your spouse demands a divorce and wants you to leave the home, an attorney’s advice is vital.  Millar Legal can help you make legally-informed decisions on your living arrangements as well as actions to take to strengthen your position.

Am I giving up my property rights if I leave to keep the peace?

You are not giving up any claim to the house by leaving, but you are also not free from the legal responsibilities to pay the rent or mortgage loan. Keep up your payments and the court will decide later whether you must continue paying after your divorce is final. Much will depend on your income.

Once you leave the home, it may be very difficult to return to retrieve important records. Be sure you have your personal documents when you leave. Additionally, create documentation on the spot. Write down what your spouse says while the statements are fresh in your memory. Date your notes. Make it as easy as possible for yourself to confidently explain later what unfolded and led to the Complaint for Divorce.

Will I qualify for (or have to pay) spousal support?

In most cases, one spouse will come away from the marriage with stronger earning potential than the other spouse. Especially at the end of a long marriage, and when there are children involved who require support, the higher earner will likely be called upon to support the other spouse.

Unless the couple agrees on the terms of spousal support, Utah law directs the court to consider many factors when ordering alimony payments.

 

What factors will the court consider when deciding on the terms of alimony?

The court considers, among other things:

  • Whether the person who seeks support is losing a source of income through the divorce because, for example, the two were business partners.
  • Whether the person who seeks support paid for or otherwise enabled the other spouse to undertake education during the marriage.
  • Note that the best interest of the minor children, if any, will always lead the court’s priorities.
How long must alimony in Utah be paid?

Generally, the responsibility to pay spousal support does not continue beyond the length of time the couple spent married.
In Utah, spousal support will also end upon the death or remarriage of the recipient, or upon the recipient’s proved cohabitation with a new partner.

 

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Mediation

What if We Don’t Come to an Agreement During Mediation?

If mediation does not result in an agreement, the parties may begin or continue the litigation process. Also, if mediation is not successful on the first attempt, parties may return to it when they realize how costly, time-consuming, and stressful the litigation process can be.

What if My Situation Is Too Complicated for Mediation?

In reality, there are not many situations too complicated for or that have not been resolved in mediation. The parties understand the dispute, and when they have educated the mediator regarding their points of view, the mediator will be able to help them negotiate a mutually beneficial agreement.

Do Lawyers Have to Be Present During Mediation?

Actually, no. Oftentimes, couples seeking a divorce will go to a mediator instead of lawyers to negotiate the terms of their divorce. When conducted by a skilled mediator, these lawyerless mediations can reduce stress and may produce good results at a price far less than divorces in which each party hires an attorney.

Can Lawyers Be Present During Mediation?

Yes. People may want a lawyer present to help ensure a fair mediated agreement is reached. In fact, in many cases it is preferable to have a lawyer present during mediation to help the parties evaluate offers being made and discuss options and risk.

Note: It is a good idea to have an attorney review a mediated agreement before signing it.

What if I Cannot Make it to Utah for Mediation, or the Parties Live Far Apart?

This is only a minor inconvenience. Mediation is often done via conference calls or video chat. The success of the mediation is not dependent on being in the same room, but is dependent on the skill of the mediator and the willingness of the parties to negotiate.

Do I Have to Be in The Same Room as the Other Person During Mediation?

No. If you do not get along with the other person, mediation can be done by what is called “caucus” where the parties are in separate rooms or locations and the mediator shuttles between the parties, either in person or via video chat.

Is Mediation Confidential?

Yes.  In Utah, what happens in mediation stays in mediation. Neither party can use what is said during mediation in a subsequent court proceeding. Likewise, the mediator cannot divulge anything that was said during mediation.

How Long Does Mediation Take?

Typical mediation sessions last between two to four hours. If the dispute is more complicated, then more time and/or more sessions will be necessary. If more time is necessary, then mediation can be broken up into multiple sessions on different days, depending on the parties’ wishes and schedules.

How Does Mediation Work?

The mediation process is actually quite simple, especially when contrasted with the litigation process. Initially, people with disputes agree to mediate, find a mediator, and then schedule a mediation. Mediation usually takes place within only a few weeks of initial contact with the mediator. The mediator will usually ask for short-typed summaries of the dispute and what exactly each party wants to accomplish during mediation. (If litigation has already begun, the mediator will likely ask for court documents that explain the dispute.) During mediation, each party will tell the mediator about the dispute from their point of view. The mediator will then ask the parties to identify the issues in dispute that need to be resolved. From this point, the mediator will help the parties openly negotiate until each of the issues in dispute is resolved in a way that (1) is acceptable to the parties, and (2) is mutually beneficial.

Once a mediated agreement has been reached, the mediator writes the agreement, and the parties review and sign it. When signed, the agreement becomes a contract and is enforceable in court. (If the mediated agreement is in the context of a parties seeking a divorce, the agreement can serve as the basis for a Decree of Divorce.)

How Much Does Mediation Cost?

The cost of mediation depends on the complexity of the dispute, the willingness of the parties to negotiate, whether lawyers are present, etc. The hourly cost of mediators themselves varies widely, depending on the mediator’s experience, skill, and education. Again though, mediation is less costly than litigation.

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Child Custody/Child Support

Do unmarried parents have the same legal rights as married ones?

Marriage does make a big difference when it comes to the law. When a married couple has a child, both partners are legally acknowledged as the child’s parents, for example. The married mother and father have equal rights and responsibilities as parents.  However, when the parents are not married, it is the mother who has full rights and responsibilities, and the father does not. Paternity — the fact that the mother’s partner is the biological father — has to be legally established first.  Only then does the father legally take on the rights and responsibilities of parenthood.

If I’m not married, how do I legally establish myself as the father of my child?

You should file a Voluntary Declaration of Paternity (VDP) with the Department of Health. This form may be obtained at the hospital where your child was born, at a local health department office, or at the Office of Vital Records and Statistics.

Can I be asked to supply proof that I am or am not a child's father?

Yes. If you are a possible father and refuse to submit to genetic testing freely, a judge has the authority to order you to undergo testing in a paternity case.
It should be noted that either parent may file a paternity case in court, asking a judge to declare that a specific person is a child’s father. When making this determination, the judge can also issue related decisions about child support, custody, and parenting time (visitation) at the same time.

If we divorce, could I lose the right to raise my young children?

Ultimately the court will determine how decisions and time with the children will be divided between the two parents. But before that, can the two of you come to an agreement on terms? A judge will accept the parents’ agreement as long as it is deemed to be in their child’s best interest.  But if you cannot agree, then custody becomes a matter for the judge to decide, taking into consideration various factors:

  • The way each parent has interacted with the child to date, and how dependent the child is on each parent
  • Each parent’s willingness to shield the child from any conflict between the parents
  • Who is more likely to put the child’s best interests first — including sharing the child’s time
  • Whether a child’s overall well-being will benefit most from joint custody
  • The wishes of the child – assuming the child is capable and old enough to weigh in reasonably
  • Where each parent will live after the divorce is finalized.
What is the difference between joint and sole physical custody of a child?

“Joint physical custody” describes a situation in which each of the parents gets to spend at least 111 nights with their child. This joint solution typically does not result in both people having exactly equal shares of parenting time.

“Sole physical custody” means one parent is entitled to 254 nights with the child. To be awarded the desired custody plan, a parent must be able to show multiple overlapping factors, such as keeping relationships between siblings intact, offering a stable, nourishing environment for the child, etc. Note that a court is likely to put a strong emphasis on which parent had been the child’s primary caregiver throughout the marriage.

What does having legal custody of a child mean?

Legal custody is the power of a parent to access information and contribute to decision making with regard to a child’s schooling and cultural activities, spiritual upbringing, and medical care. Naturally, less weighty decisions about a child’s food, clothing, transportation, and so forth generally need to be made by whichever parent is caring for that child on a given day. In the event of disagreement on any of these issues, the parent may turn to a dispute resolution provision which should be included in their custody plan.

It should be noted that Utah law favors joint legal custody, as it is currently seen as serving a child’s best interests.

How are child support payments determined?

Child support payments are intended to provide for the care and financial needs of minors.  The relative level of need is often determined by the lifestyle and living conditions of the child prior to his or her parents’ separation and this can play a role in calculating child support payments. The non-custodial parent, therefore, may be obligated to help maintain the standard of living that a child enjoyed before the divorce. Similarly, the court will typically consider needs that are specific to a child, for example, children who have a mental or physical disability.

In addition to considering the needs of a child, a family law judge will typically factor in the income of both a child’s parents, as well as other available resources. The custodial parent may earn more money and/or have a higher net worth than the child’s other parent. As a result, he or she may be required to pay less child support. On the other hand, a child’s non-custodial parent could be obligated to pay more child support if the court determines that he or she maintains a suitable income.

One tactic some parents take is to purposely reduce income by becoming unemployed or underemployed (when a person purposely takes a lower paying job.) Since child and spousal support obligations are based (in large part) on a person’s ability to pay, eliminating or reducing monthly income would theoretically reduce a person’s support obligation. However, most states recognize this unethical tactic and have passed laws to prevent people from reducing their support obligations in this way. Under these laws, courts may impute income to a party who purposely becomes unemployed or underemployed to avoid paying (or to reduce the amount of) child or spousal support. To be clear, IMPUTED INCOME DOES NOT REPRESENT ACTUAL INCOME. Imputed income represents an amount of income a party should or could be making based on the facts presented.

What is Utah Law on Imputed Income?

Utah’s imputed income statute is provided under Utah Code § 78B-12-203(6-7). In short, the code provides that the court may impute income if: 1) the party stipulates to the amount imputed, 2) the party defaults, or 3) a hearing is held and the judge enters findings of fact as to the evidentiary basis for the imputation.

Therefore, it can be seen that income may be imputed in situations other than when a party is purposely trying to reduce income to minimize or eliminate a support obligation. The first situation referenced above (where a party stipulates to the imputed income) may occur when a party’s income is difficult to verify through regular methods (e.g. the party doesn’t receive regular paychecks) rather than when a party is purposely unemployed or underemployed. Or it could occur where a party is capable of making income but isn’t for some reason (e.g. he/she chooses to be a stay-at- home parent). “Stipulates” in this context means that the party agrees to an amount of income being imputed to him or her.

Does bankruptcy impact child support?

Filing bаnkruрtсу will nоt diѕсhаrgе dоmеѕtiс ѕuрроrt оbligаtiоnѕ. The Bаnkruрtсу Abuѕе Prеvеntiоn аnd Cоnѕumеr Prоtесtiоn Act оf 2005 рriоritizеѕ thе payment of alimony аnd сhild ѕuрроrt – еvеn оvеr thе рауmеnt оf back tаxеѕ. During a bankruptcy, thе “аutоmаtiс ѕtау” ѕtорѕ thе соllесtiоn оf debt temporarily. Hоwеvеr, thiѕ dоеѕ nоt аррlу tо dоmеѕtiс ѕuрроrt рауmеntѕ.

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Guardianship

Who Is A Guardian?

A guardian is a person appointed by the court who manages certain affairs for a child under age 18 – or, for an adult who has been determined to not have the ability to manage these affairs for themselves.

Who Can Serve As A Guardian?

Many states tend to prefer that guardians be related to the individual or that they have an established relationship whenever possible. However, this is not a requirement. What is most important is that they are over the age of 18 and can make the decisions for the person they are serving as guardian for with the best interests of that person in mind.

Because of this last requirement, convicted felons and those who have been determined to need a guardian themselves should not serve as a guardian for another person. Also, some people serve as guardians professionally; an institution, either public or private may also be appointed as a guardian but only if they are not providing services where they may benefit from the decisions they make for the person they are guardian for. Financial institutions sometimes act as guardians for matters related to a person’s estate.

When Is A Guardian Necessary?

Different guardians are appointed by the court when parents are deceased or determined incapable of making choices for their children, or when an adult is deemed incapable of managing some or all of their own affairs. That said, simply being disabled does not mean an adult needs a guardian. It must be demonstrated that they lack the capacity to make decisions in a number of different areas including health care, living arrangements, education, financial matters, and care of minors they may be legally responsible for.

In order to appoint a guardian for an adult, it must be first be determined that the individual is incapacitated and then that the guardian is qualified and that the guardianship itself will protect the individual and help to keep them safe.

What is a limited guardianship?

There are times when an individual may need assistance in a certain, specific area (or areas) of their life A limited guardianship looks at the individual capabilities of a person or the prospective guardian, and a court order will outline specifics where a guardian is necessary and when it is not. For example, a person may be qualified to make everyday financial decisions, such as buying groceries or personal items, but will not have the mental capability to understand making financial investments. In this case the individual may need a guardian for major financial decisions only.

What Types Of Guardianships Are Available?

 A person may need a guardian for different areas of their lives. They may be considered “incapacitated” in one area, but may be fully qualified to handle their own care in another.

Guardianship of the person oversees the physical and emotional well-being of the person they are guardian of. They will be called on to make decisions regarding health care, releasing confidential information, when necessary, and placement in a residential facility.

Guardianship of the estate oversees the person’s financial interests, including any income, inheritance, property, or real estate that they own.

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